A Lot Can Happen in a Year

It was just about this time last year that we found out I was pregnant. Matt was just about to leave for work, so we got excited/panicked together and then he was off! I didn't mind him leaving too much actually because I knew my mom would be a better shopping partner for the first baby shopping trip! Matt didn't want to shop for a baby outfit yet because he thought I was getting ahead of myself. Pregnancy tests are very accurate, so I was more than ready to go find something small and cute! After calling my dad who was at work and my grandma, my mom and I went and got a few things that were cute and gender neutral. Everything that could work for a boy or girl was yellow with ducks. Perfect! We got some duck onesies, and a duck gown. My mom always loved the gowns, so I believed her that I would like them too. Sure enough, she was right! The gowns are the best for changing diapers at night, and they are so adorable. For some reason (I think it was the only size left) we got these clothes in 6 month size, so he is just now wearing them.  Here is Swen wearing the little duck gown we bought him a year ago! He is SO cute right?

When Matt got home from work, he saw the little outfits and almost caught up to my excitement. I guess I couldn't except him to scream every time I pulled an item of clothing out the bag like I did. Then we drove over to his parents' house and told them the news. Of course they were thrilled! Our parents knew better than we did at the time how much pure love and joy a baby would bring into our lives.

So here we are a year later with the most perfect little four-month boy ever.  We went to the doctor which I always love. She was proud again of how big he was! She is one of the few besides family who has seen him triple his weight. She also kept saying that his skin is beautiful, so I must be taking good care of it. This made me laugh because all I do is bathe him. He hates lotion, so I rarely ever lotion him.  Here are his stats as well as another picture:

14 pounds, 15 ounces- 53rd percentile
24 inches long- 18th percentile
16 inch head circumference- 20th percentile

This is such a fun stage because he still smiles all the time. He giggles and talks. My favorite is when he tries to make noises as loud as he can over and over again. He still loves his toys and his books. My favorite is when he grabs pages and it looks like he's actually reading them. Swen has yet to roll over all the way; he only makes it to his side. He might do better from tummy to back, but he doesn't ever want to be on his tummy, so he doesn't get too much practice with that. I know I should be better about this whole "tummy time" thing, but I really don't like it when he's sad. All kids learn to roll over right? So why force him? One crazy thing happened this week. He took a nap by himself! It lasted about 30 minutes before he asked to be picked up, but in 30 minutes I was finally able to put all his baby pictures in an album. Then I snuggled and rocked him for the rest of his nap.




Napping ALONE!

A year ago I was working full time teaching kindergarten. Now I am working full time taking care of Swen, which is the best job ever by the way. Swen has gone from being in my tummy, and I have what feels like a whole new life. Poor Matt is still doing the same daily things, going to school and work. Except now he comes home to his perfect baby instead of just me. :)

Oh and if you were wondering Swen still HATES his carseat.




I love him.

Already teaching Swen how to play iphone games.

Does Swen want to be put down while I make cookies? Of course not. He likes to help. I also didn't know that his frontpack reflected until I saw this picture; how fancy.

 

No More Cows

Anyone who knows me knows that I am probably the pickiest eater ever. I don't like any fruits, vegetables, seafood, or condiments. I really mean it. You might say, "Not even strawberries or apples, etc?" I will answer no. I hate all of these things, and I always have. My parents tell me that I used to spit out fruits when I was a baby. I remember them trying to pay me money to eat  strawberries and raspberries several different times when I was younger, but I never got any money. Actually, I probably did because they felt so bad for making me pretty much throw up from sticking those gross things in my mouth. I won't even eat something that has fruit on the same plate. I'm convinced I'm deathly allergic and my tongue is protecting me.

Consequently, my diet is very limited. I like meat, cheese, bread, more bread, peanut butter, cereal, and of course anything that involves sugar (not whatever kind of sugar is in fruit though). And it is about to get even more restricted.

Swen has had a stuffy nose for his entire lifetime. I'm not making this up. At his two month appointment he had been getting over a cold, so I figured that's why his nose was stuffy and I didn't talk to the doctor too much about it. This cold has now been gone for two months, and his nose is STILL stuffy. It drives Swen, Matt, and me nuts. We are cleaning it out all the time; he hates it. He wakes up in the middle of the night because he isn't breathing well. I kept hoping that this would all go away, but it hasn't. After reading about this and talking to a lactation specialist,  it could possibly (hopefully) be an allergy to something I'm eating. The only way to figure this out is to completely eliminate certain foods from my diet and see if Swen's stuffy nose gets better over time. It usually takes a week to notice a difference.

The most common allergy babies react to while nursing is dairy. So starting today I am eating no dairy. Blah! It will be hard to forgo cheese and ice cream because those are two of my favorite things ever. But if it makes Swen's nose less stuffy, it will be more than worth it. His 4-month appointment is next week, so if it doesn't work, I will have given it a shot, and his pediatrician can give me another suggestion. Poor baby Swen is waking up all the time unable to breathe and getting his nose suctioned out several times a day. Then to top it off, he's grumpy in the day from not sleeping well at night. Poor Mommy and Daddy are exhausted from getting up all night and feel awful every time he screams while we clean his nose.  Let's hope this works! I will try eliminating every different food group if I have to see what works because I feel so bad for him.

It can't be one of my blogs with out an annoying number of pictures of Swen right? He's been playing the "I only smile when there's no camera game." Here is our perfect, fat, adorable, wonderful, amazing baby. We LOVE him so much.



Matt always comes home from work at night to the three of us hanging out in bed.



He loves facing out in the font pack.



I love his blue eyes!



Best Daddy ever.



Riding Kitty. I think she still hates him for replacing her.



Playing with the fun Subway paper.

Swen... and Life

These last few weeks have been a time of several new things, along with lots of old great things still going on. Let's start with one of the new and very exciting things first. I've been cooking! That's right, me cooking is something very new. There are several reasons why I don't cook: I'm not good at it, I'm picky, it never tastes good, leftovers are worse than the already bad food I ate the first night, and I can never figure out what to make.  Because of this long list of things, Matt and I go out to eat way too much, and when we don't go out, we have the college diet of Top Ramen and Mac and Cheese.

As I've mentioned in previous blogs, I am blessed to be a stay-at-home mom. It is the best thing I've ever done in my life. Saying I love it is an understatement. With this wonderful blessing comes a lot less money. Going out to eat costs money, so we aren't going out, and that means someone has to cook. Matt would cook if he wasn't working and going to school all day long, but he is, so that leaves it all up to me. So far I've cooked tacos, stroganoff, grilled chicken, enchiladas, hamburgers, and cake. Surprisingly, they all turned out edible! I'm really proud of myself, and I hope to be able to find more things to try because those things will get boring super fast. Feel free to share any easy recipes for me! Also, any advice on budgeting would be awesome. I'm not good at it already.

Matt is back going to school at the University of Utah. To put it mildly, Matt isn't the biggest fan of school. He has many reasons, such as school is "overrated" or "pointless" and "not worth it because people can make good money with out a degree." However, somewhere deep down he knows that he needs to go. That reminds me of another common phrase I hear in the same sentence as school, "never ending." That is where he is wrong. As we were looking over his audit report, we found out that he only has two semesters left after this one. Hooray! Swen and I miss having him around, but we are glad he's there and even more glad that he is almost done!

Now with some old things. Swen is still adorable as ever! I can't believe it but he gets cuter every day. He giggles, smiles, laughs, and cries of course. He is still sleeping in our bed. Actually it is no longer our bed. It is now my bed. Don't worry, Matt and I are still happily married (most of the time!:) ) but Matt is so busy and needs sleep. It is hard for him to sleep well with Swen and me in a queen bed, so he's been sleeping out on the couch. I thought this would be a short term thing, but he is still out there 3  months since it all started. We keep thinking maybe we should try putting Swen in his crib, but we always think of tons of reasons why we shouldn't. First, his sleep schedule is finally becoming bearable, so we don't want to mess it up. More importantly, I really really love having him in bed with me. I love snuggling with him all night long. I also love that he doesn't have to cry loud before I wake up to feed him. Most times I wake up when he starts ferociously eating his hand, so he doesn't even have to cry. Matt really wants to be able to sleep in bed with us too and snuggle with Swen all night, so we are hoping to buy a king bed sometime soon with all the extra money we having sitting around.

Some things Swen loves are
- Rocking in the rocking chair
- Walking around the house
- Nursing... all the time :) good thing I love it too!
- Napping on people (oh darn, I have to stop everything and snuggle him during his naps)
- Taking baths
- Being read to (he really does love it already!)
- Watching Baby Einstein movies
- People shaking rattles and keys for him ( he still can't hold them on his own-soon hopefully)
- Getting his diaper changed

Now the longer list of things he does NOT love:
- His car seat (really he screams as if someone is torturing him every time he's in it)
- Loud noises that scare him
- Being switched from person to person
- Being put down  or sleeping by himself except at night
- The grocery store, mall, restaurants, the bank, friends' houses. Let's just say leaving our house in general is high on the list of things he doesn't like.
- People moving when he's napping on them
- Having a messy diaper
- Pacifiers (probably because I am crazy and I hate them, so I don't give him one except in the car when he's screaming, but then he screams louder and spits it out. PLEASE don't think I'm judging anyone who uses them. I'm just crazy and weird.)
- Being away from me for too long (the question Swen hears all the time is "Do you just want your mommy?" He will let others hold him for a little bit, but then he wants me back, and of course I love him so much and we are so connected. I swear that right when I start to miss him, he starts to cry and I get to take him back.
- Having a stuffy nose


Being his Mommy is the most amazing thing in the world. He's my best friend, and I love being with him all the time. Look at him; can you blame me?

 Fat Swen

 Poor Kitty... she was replaced.

 Cutest baby ever

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